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Johnnyboy is a queer recovering alcoholic. For the moment he is also the primary caregiver for his mother, who suffers from age-related cognitive impairment. She is happy as a lark and is surrounded by a crew of sober women which gives him the freedom he needs to get out of town. When he is not at home in Somewheresville, he is searching out the proper path to travel for happiness and joy. He is a photographer who believes in the digital age, but feels that film is still where its at. He has a darkroom and works in it. He is single and is in remarkably great physical condition for all the damage he has submitted his body to. His cardiologist is very happy. Johnnyboy is over the age of 35.

Long time gone…

14/03/2008 Johnnyboy

Sorry for dropping off the map for a spell, but I have been so busy with life that something had to suffer as a result. In the past that would have been an important and vital something, like family or The Self, but this time it’s only my little blog, widely unread, and even spat upon by a recent ‘reader’.

I have to admit that the vitriolic speechifying stunned me and left me somewhat shaken. I forget that there are angry and violent people out there who would do me and others harm because they feel it is the right thing to do and they are helping out. So I guess I have been wary of blogging as a result…as well as a busy schedule.

Not to go into specifics too much, but let’s just say that my mother’s health is doing well, despite the numerous trips to doctors (some scheduled, some not) and arranging for live-in homecare aides while I’m away. Mt studies are going along well, but I am suffering the Spring Semester Slam, even though I am not behind in my work. 12 credits of advanced standing courses on top of the pressures at home make for a scrambled brain, I think.

Here’s the cool thing…

Yesterday was the last day of a series of medical appointments for mom. It was also a telephone class meeting with a professor about 1000 miles from here. To top this off, I have been waiting to hear from the homecare folks for weeks…So I woke up at 6AM and within 4 hours it all happened: Mom went off to her appointment, and all went well; I had my ‘class’ and that went well, and just when I thought it was over…The phone rang and it was them! We have set up a meeting time for them to visit mom here before to get to know her, etc…What a relief! I offered up my thanks to the Heavens for a wonderful and full day, and all before noon.

Then I took a nap.

Today is mom’s birthday. She’s 84. We’re meeting some of her friends for lunch at the Pale Stag. Did I mention that all the women who will be caring for her when I’m away are in the Program? No coincidences here in Somewheresville…

Johnnyboy

NERAASA and angry comments from the peanut gallery…

25/02/2008 Johnnyboy

NERAASA was awesome. I will be a better GSR because of this assembly and not only improve my own life, but the service involvement of my homegroup as well. Pretty simple stuff, if I work it.

I have had to enable my ‘comment moderation’ button due to a very angry and dangerous blogger named Micky. I came home form the weekend to find his nasty and angry words filling the fields. I apologize for all those who wish to comment freely, but I must now review your words. I have reported him as a spammer, so maybe that will help as well. The gist of his 14 comments (14!) was that AA is the work of Satan and we are all going to burn in hell. All this does is remind me that despite the true christian (small ‘C’) teachings in the Bible (Love, Tolerance, Forgiveness, etc…) there are some really crazy and violent people out there who use a book of love and kindness to harm to innocent people trying to get well in a way that works for them.

Poor soul. He probably tried AA and wasn’t willing to ask for help, so people stopped talking to him. Now he has a resentment and is taking it out on all of us. I’ve met some of these folks in the flesh and they are truly troubled. I can see the fear on their faces.

Johnnyboy

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